<menu id="suuyg"><code id="suuyg"></code></menu>
  • <menu id="suuyg"><nav id="suuyg"></nav></menu>
    <tt id="suuyg"><tt id="suuyg"></tt></tt>
  • <xmp id="suuyg">
  • <nav id="suuyg"></nav>
    <nav id="suuyg"></nav>
    → 左岸讀書,一如既往。

    朋友說,朋友說

    2019-07-02 . 閱讀: 485 views

    朋友,是你的一面鏡子。——《領悟》

    朋友說:“獨自閱讀,跑步,消解閑暇時光,何嘗不是在逃避現實呢?”

    是啊,一直在逃避現實的紛擾。所謂的現實也不過是贍養父母,結婚生子,房子車子,除此之外,我們總該要面對自己,獨自上路。在前者還不需要,后者還不可得的時候,順其自然,怡然自得的做自己的喜歡做的事情,大概是對小我的最好安慰。

    朋友說:“你總是與別人保持距離”,那是在大學朋友抱怨說。 

    當時心一驚,原來我給人如此的感覺,如今依然還是如此的感覺,總是不刻意的與人相伴,你來,我會接你,你要走,那我就送你。

    經歷過刻意討好,要與人交朋友,最后不可得。當時的熱鬧,經不起時光的錘煉,回憶起來,滿是青澀。初入群體,總能遇到一群有同樣抱團需求的朋友,那是會為了保持同步,適當放棄自己的想法,可慢慢的發現退得有點多了,反倒不舒服,索性踽踽獨行,選擇自己喜歡的生活方式。

    于是,當時在群體里不刻意套近乎,等到分崩離析,天各一方時,也不會功利的主動,只是順其自然。到了你在的城市,我會告訴你,我來了。你要有困難找我,我也會盡我所能。

    保持適當的距離,相處舒服,雖不在眼前,但一直都在。待人以真誠,不需要表面的熱鬧,想起這個人,回憶曾經時光,嘴角輕揚,心里涌起一絲暖意,那就足矣。

    朋友說:“這個年紀了,還不穩定下來,還東跑西跑的?”

    那時離開寧波,朋友看到朋友圈狀態,在微信里善意提醒到,我只是簡單的回復到:“人生不止于此吧!”。

    每次面對未知的挑戰,總會欣然前往。在年紀這個問題上,從來不自我設限,六七十歲征戰馬拉松的年輕人比比皆是,人終究是不安分的,有的人愿意平常心接受現世安穩,有的人就是不愿甘于平凡,一直在路上。

    也與年長者討論過這個問題,為什么我們明明是那種沒有企圖心的人,卻總是不安分的在路上追逐,他說,我們這一類人,對于外在看似沒有特別的企圖,但是卻有自己的底線和期許,在現實世界里求而不得的情況下,自然而然的伺機而動,也正是沒有特別的期待,反倒不受羈絆。

    向來都是輕裝上陣,從來不是負重前行。不在意外在,所以輕松,不安分,得以前行。

    朋友說:“追求自性是思考不來的,也不是努力向外追求得來的,需要自己體悟。”

    那時正因為日更讓自己焦頭爛額,又因為過于在意外在的眼光,讓自己的生活忙碌不已,獨自泡在圖書館里百無聊賴的消磨時光,很努力卻無法享受過程。聽到他發來的信息,一時之間有點不知所措。

    莫名之間有所了悟,工作生活不再多說話,文章也不再更新,朋友圈狀態也盡量不發,人處于靜默的狀態,回到事情本身,而不再以別人的眼光作為衡量事物的標準,事情自有公論,自然也不會急于解釋,也不會刻意的掩蓋什么,周遭的世界一下子安靜了下來,慢慢的回到了自己,不糾結。

    朋友說:“你最近怎么不更新文章了?”,朋友見面客套的問候了下。

    我開玩笑說,最近在反省中,保持低調。

    作為個人愛好,在沒有能力獲得成功之下,優先考慮滿足自己的表達的需求。有的時候,別人不在意內容本身,而是你看待問題的角度。

    朋友們說了很多,真正能入心也就不經意間的三兩句,能說會道不是壞事,但夸夸其談總是件累人的事。

    文昌 北京 changchang01

    左岸

    愛讀書,愛生活!

    發表評論



    日彩网 4182j.com | www.j3567.com | www.330865.com | www.s33558.com | www.lyc55.com | www.vns7730.com | www.335274.com | www.v4042.com | 59859.com | www.w456x.com | 4066b.com | www.xpj878.com | 33382q.com | www.3890l.com | www.bf855.com | www.068619.com | www.33c668.com | 55797z.com | www.63606u.com | 3467x.cc | www.js55785.com | 90307y.com | www.910997.com | www.3459i.com | www.160881.com | www.2y932.com | 3846q.com | www.www014678.com | 44112007.com | www.755670.com | www.55422o.com | 35856app.com | www.1111284.com | 3844gg.com | www.81608x.com | BY30838.com | www.506931.com | www.2544k9.com | 73567tg7.com | www.16065p.com | www.8520j.com | www.196049.com | www.w456x.com | 87965aa.com | www.338073.com | www.4078o.com | 66681n.com | www.126kc.com | www.hg6888.com | hg837.com | www.904029.com | www.bet1699.com | 66773885.com | www.js00878.com | www.8520p.com | 1466l.com | www.0601w.com | www.9996ll.com | z88ww.com | www.5441z.com | www.778849.com | 1466n.com | www.qml1.com | www.c9860.com | am661.cc | www.332760.com | www.9895v.com | www.9566879.com | wns78.com | www.yi765.com | www.307msc.com | 5804n.com | www.567306.com | www.57157.com | emr9836.com | www.196049.com | www.48330k.com | www.bet25365.com | aaa8996.com | www.815266.com | www.88166s.com | ks2223.com | d61653.com | www.8188.tw | js345.com | 4812g.com | www.den60.com | www.bet63r.com | z00351.com | 7726bbb.com | www.hu508.com | www.55070f.com | www.785779.com | www.73990b.com | www.xpj99896.com | 88000076.com | www.099192.com | www.bj699.com | www.k2341.com | 4340y.com | www.452817.com | www.99094p.com | www.amjs9.com | 73055g.com | 2595u.com | www.ykylc05.com | www.16297777.com | 22296oo.com | 66458v.com | www.71233b.com | www.448868.com | feicai0798.com | 1770z.com | www.slyl2.com | www.1064d.com | www.hg701n.com | 477076.com | www.210155.com | www.1841222.com | www.0377555.com | www.7782u.com | www.lyhltj.com | www.76060l.com | 3836.com | 3685p.com | www.60007x.com | www.799666o.com | www.87680u.com | 4809o.com | hag8326.com | 5369s.com | 4541u.com | 4052n.com | www.301990.com | www.7249m.com | www.jsc12315.com | www.51167.com | 3482y.com | 3122y.com | www.8jcw.com | www.0194004.com | www.v88131.com | www.tjflcpw.com | ly88888887.com | vip145b.com | www.235812.com | www.105ak.com | www.81608j.com | www.k2678.com | www.7607677.com | wfcp777666.com | 7893w19.com | b762.xyz | www.580820.com | www.43818s.com | www.515973.com | www.s27229.com | 883399x.com | www.v2662.com | www.346346.com | www.jp328.com | www.y1311.com | 566777j.com | www.4963ww.com | www.pj8793.com | www.8520m.com | 50067z.com | 680556.com | 3327.com | www.038079.com | www.843533.com | www.5854u.cc | www.hg7774.com | www.7240t.com | 463h8.com | 28839a.com | 4997x.com | www.288645.com | www.flff1.com | www.21202n.com | www.9895o.com | www.pp55826.com | www.bmw3350.com | www.xmsjzp.com | 5003ff.com | zhcp43.com | 35222ww.com | 883399z.com | 5622b.com | www.c5905.com | www.js18685.com | www.798344.com | www.63606v.com | www.4996yx.com | www.90644.com | www.097779f.com | www.56992.com | www.js80288.com | 98345h.com | 2757a.com | 22zz8332.com | 463e8.com | cq9.com | 3559xxx.com | 61326622.com | 555p1.cc | 3178nn.com | 00339193.com | 3559s.com | 99151j.com | 37688u.com | 06385656.com | 7779822.com | 2566h4.com | 500000414.com | zguvgd.com | www.178612.com | www.liuguan000.com | www.175221.com | www.081501.com | 66300vip13.com | 36518.info | www.330732.com | www.368158.com | www.684544.com | www.cb7288.com | www.3126p.com | www.76520w.com | www.41518w.com | www.8mcp.com | www.658997.com | www.766076.com | www.452804.com | www.49956u.com | www.221085.com | www.36787e.com | 2018.so | www.17784.com | www.2997779.com | www.js8600 | www.77210h.com | www.550021m.com | www.16878r.com | www.hm7388.com | www.621341.com | www.840979.com | www.496918.com | 0033d.cc | ss2649.com | r1915.com | 3559e.com | 67877v.com | 7720.net | www.hg0095.com | www.9680app.com | www.yl00444.com | www.66.42.42.157 | www.bwinyz41.com | www.984702.com | www.51331c.com | www.972876.com | www.686536.com | 48287777.com | biying920vip.com | oo8159.cc | 131mm.net | www.86611l.com | www.98599.com | www.wanda00.com | www.5099ss.com | www.8905p.com | www.39957d.com | www.520462.com | www.032288.com | 875856.com | 32212g.com | h4455g.com | www.pj7991.com | www.98698d.com | www.0343o.com | www.02czj.com | 18775o.com | lehu558.com | wnsr8807.com | www.h7788w.com | www.232651.com | www.120057.com | 86811nn.com | 3552s.com | 59599z.com | www.8837138.com | www.sb5502.com | www.81508y.com | www.8499g.com | www.83993i.com | 7874.cc | 3482l.com | www.ylhg0808.com | www.0621gg.com | www.472709.com | www.15355e.com | www.531982.com | 60956666.com | vns9539.com | www.21365rr.com | www.xm9900.com | www.jbb400.cc | www.677038.com | 566671144.com | yhxinjiang.vip | www.302981.com | www.288988a.com | www.81678k.com | www.153328.com | x48f.com | www.1869s.com | www.871817.com | www.954321w.com | www.376357.com | p1.cc | 1168k.com | www.332159.com | www.36586666.com | www.vns916.com | www.5446q.com | www.006hy.cc | x48i.com | 20058.com | www.7agcpw.com | www.81520f.com | JS1388k.com | 2147xl.com | www.v3302.com | www.222jyh.com | www.0014h.com | 2140099.com | 5525.us | www.xin8884.com | www.8998977.com | www.206881.com | 4288vv.com | www.hg3569.com | www.2544h5.com | www.004ac.com | 59889.com | qycps2.com | www.rgcp555.com | www.68689c.com | 6hcc88.com | 2506j.com | www.568000.com | www.wd05.cc | ty262.com | 56787ff.com | x5816.com | 2009t.com | www.848777m.com | www.865606.com | 496nn.com | www.41msc.com | www.495.ee | www.292199.com | amhg044.com | www.404msc.com | www.71233y.com | 284123.com | www.81866r.com | www.4058rr.com | www.808482.com | 0805q.com | www.cjycp55.com | www.333xx.cc | 3245i.com | www.967333a.com | 32126w.net | www.66930044.com | 454662.com | www.vns388.com | www.js79902.com | www.173631.com | 8381c.com | www.950163.com | www.725898.com | v4255.com | www.78z5.com | www.500vp.com | 69442288.com | www.991882.com | www.ya848.com | 70118.com | www.ffvns.com | www.371u.cc | sbd030.net | www.987559.com | www.777xm.cc | 4022cc.com | www.haomen1.com | www.738742.com | 61322211.com | www.zs5555.com | www.32czj.com | 36409955.com | www.bai3311.com | www.606643.com | 2266buyu.com | www.88325s.com | 7792o.com | 20771166.com | www.28891b.com | 6033m.com | www.34557.com | www.chi59.com | 3807t.com | www.28000c.com | www.282555c.com | www.820585.com | 0015hh.com | www.46630.info | www.773333.com | www.690776.com | 73055m.com | www.y8917.com | 97000.net | www.1869c.com | www.2418000.com | fa8888.com | www.hg8907.com | www.luck878.com | 6177004.com | www.4102h.com | 29977.com | www.778l.com | www.499393.com | h00351.com | www.222067a.com? | 159666n.com | www.848434.com | vip2127.com | www.7620679.com | www.2934j.com | qjdy006.com | www.7036bb.com | 5509.com | www.5349.com | 1219.com | www.88021ii.com | www.54p.com | qycps9.com | www.42842816.com | bet555888.cc | www.38138l.com | 63305r.com | www.blm139.com | www.082965.com | www.benz4242.com | www.877876.com | jnn006.com | www.33112n.com | 3685a.com | www.x99678.com | 35ss.vip | www.73990h.com | 38989h.com | www.397888b.com | dz8222.com | www.y186w.com | www.677397.com | www.wns8848.com | www.okw0.com | 176939.com | www.yh77706.com | www.08gcw.com | 54540123.com | www.2dzh.com | 7375.com | www.331616a.com | 4639955.com | www.f093.com | www.591109.app | www.981060.com | www.033033c.com | www.fcyl2.com | hga008.al | www.hm2277.com | www.033033c.com | www.997345.com | www.737.am | www.665039.com | www.hg5588.me | www.399280.com | www.2846a.com | www.108057.com | www.1213699.com | 0906vip2.com | www.bwin499.com | 2897.com | www.4444yh.vip | j2857.com | www.73990o.com | lc99r.com | www.28891b.com | df8m.com | www.055b.cc | www.js003.cc | www.rf615.com | jj2649.com | www.79500l.com | bwin8l.com | www.wns00.me | bb2348.com | www.3890e.com | www.hg3442.com | www.364077.com | www.s0311.com | www.cp98.com | sha0555.com | www.xj445566.com | 500000313.com | www.656121.com | www.3709884.com | vns8r.com | www.848777p.com | 3568ll.com | www.18690a.com | l83377.com | www.452816.com | www.414266.com | 33558448.com | www.y61337.com | 3665yh.com | www.934680.com | www.833373.com | 86611q.com | www.a063801.com | qq365v.com | www.055.la | www.2226358.com | bet2080.com | www.38138c.com | hwapp1.com | www.igcp4.com | www.0907ww.com | zhcp100.com | www.6687e.com | 7508k.com | www.737249.com | www.105353.com | hg3457.com | www.9646e.com | www.645suncity.com | www.32123u.com | www.19019b.com | 32008.com | www.53531.cc | www.p34888.com | 80060202.com | www.393089.com | 99151n.com | www.89894c.com | www.hg98097.com | 22204066.com | www.673290.com | www.168uuu.com | 22254066.com | www.66wcw.com | www.6786j.com | 889.net | www.bet73l.com | www.3236544.com | 11001468.com | www.5958127.com | www.pjchongqing.com | yl2827.com | www.bb4625.com | www.6668.cc | 51200xx.com | www.55676w.com | www.4447727.com | 06006u.com | www.7681003.com | www.yh8006.com | 87665d.com | www.0622.com | www.5888xpj.com | ff555q.com | www.55111122.com | www.365815d.com | 3522e.cc | www.2373i.com | www.00166b.com | 3640pp.com | www.591032.com | www.hg173f.com | 8036ee.com | swin8.com | www.j63568.com | www.3657g.com | 1434s.com | www.5522s.cc | www.sb005.com | 2fll8.com | www.081306.com | www.vnsr928.com | www.388103.com | 1468jjj.com | www.15237.cc | www.wxc0234.com | amjs68332.com | www.51515t.com | www.xpj3133.net | www.yinhecc33.com | giscrocodile.com | www.cp369.net | www.c44vv.com | 2455n.com | 8822vn77.com | www.89894r.com | www.ljw036.com | www4165.com | www.346211.com | www.663558.com | www.yinhecc33.com | 2595m.com | www.766859.com | www.bwin920.co | www.7788076.com | ss76669.com | www.938518.com | www.3188888.com | www.pj550099.com | kb080.com | www.737249.com | www.3983177.com | www.hg53488.com | 0208pp.com | www.348377.com | www.flb904.com | www.bd0088.com | xxx01234.com | 55818j.com | www.50024y.com | www.hf9015.com | 5446q.com | 588ppp.cc | www.609816.com | www.wns00.me | www.xpj2025.com | 7788.tt | blm385.com | www.ck09.com | www.j36.cc | www.330099p.com | pj900.cc | cp3136.com | www.c3956.com | www.704905.com | 7335u.com | www.50052m.com | www.sscb55.cc | www.v1636.com | 4018s.com | www.874suncity.com | hg999333a.com | 58222e.com | zyxxd.com | www.34788c.com | www.4446aaa.com | www.4972zz.com | 2078t.com | wns981.com | www.567206.com | www.ihg5588.com | www.jxcp2222.com | www.vns992.cc | 6556s.com | 9599wm6.com | www.612110.com | www.ribo88.com | www.938968.com | www.48163.com | 4647v.com | www.bet63p.com | www.xpj238886.com | feicai0937.com | p888hh.com | 38989u.com | www.55228h.com | www.10999r.com | www.7935p.net | 320007.com | 3482z.com | 32355nn.com | www.397477.com | www.50024z.com | www.4521s.com | www.hg8104.com | www.223456f.com | 9339999d.com | ll1331.com | 7334t.com | www.599840.com | www.75538b.com | www.222367.com | www.776775.com | www.4972ss.com | 7945mm.com | 3522aa.cc | 78110077.com | 61323388.com | www.623190.com | www.49956h.com | www.vns88.me | www.389249.com | www.yh1386.com | www.578860.com | www.56666.cc | www.686727.com | www.00773i.com | www.01389.com | www.825909.com | yu989.com | 68228z.com | 8988gg.com | 2466.com | 皇冠在线娱乐.com | www.393890.com | www.ya828.com | www.126cpw.com | www.40288l.com | www.7370.com | www.xiniguoji.com | www.js520456.com | www.heng95990.com | 500000412.com | 3559ooo.com | q3410.com | wlb888.com | 11116556.com | www.561502.com | www.qbwc3.com | www.61524s.com | www.30393.com | www.792073.com | www.8313s.com | www.1389ff.com | www.hg287.com | www.32666f.com | www.64448.com | bm1395.com | w47479.com | 2012.com | 33ff8332.com | 4011.cc | bet8688.cc | 2709x.com | 4123rr.com | p888good.com | 0906vip8.com | 5446rr.com | 33115k.com | 2418t.com | 619579.com | www.89656a.com | www.289917.com | www.542511.com | www.749996.com | www.912483.com | www.c229.com | www.c6097.com | www.igcp6.com | www.04czj.com | www.055e.cc | www.022bj.cc | www.66ffz.com | www.022ah.cc | www.011ac.com | www.88ckb.com | www.21czj.com | www.dao70.com | www.hx3355.com | www.ct8855.com | www.980771.com | www.am7979.com | www.938454.com | www.rcw456.com | www.691063.com | www.589467.com | www.452166.com | www.330716.com | www.063353.com | aydfwjc.com | 3678qq.com | 38345s.com | 1665dd.com | 55pp8332.com | p005.com | 8522yyyy.com | www.3334331.com | www.dy910.com | www.50074b.com | www.6364b.com | www.qm71.com | www.645880.com | www.316546.com | www.36166v.com | pz08.com | yabobbs.com | b62.com | dh0638.com | 15942222.com | 2127m.com | 3016ddd.com | www.026033.com | www.255251.com | www.5045678.com | www.85857w.com | www.bwinyz22.com | www.32031b.com | www.16065k.com | www.97171.cc | www.876312.com | www.226705.com | k99345.am | 892979.com | 0652l.com | 8569811q.com | 1624zz.com | www.866918.com | www.pj01.com | www.ebo666.com | www.5679527.com | www.yl13444.com | www.99355.cc | www.652392.com | man587.com | kj5568.com | 3566mm.com | ylpp234.com | www.55123.com | www.1294xi.com | www.boh.cc | www.681183.com | www.67258d.com | www.912254.com | www.50080v.com | 87665t.com | 23599i.com | 97799f.com | www.654bet.com | www.683210.com | www.biying970vip.com | www.120611.com | www.95wcp.com | www.188732.com | 8890850.com | 664740.com | 2677yyy.com | www.yl66636.com | www.11c668.com | www.52062h.com | www.8816s.com | www.202437.com | 4546119.com | 4955q.com | www.8520j.com | www.msc51.com | www.4828888.com | www.904029.com | www.595707.com | 3435p.com | 3559.la | 7736q.com | www.990998.com | www.4521r.com | www.66026.cc | www.96386e.com | 35222z.com | 2078q.com | www.55112055.com | www.28000y.com | www.455263.com | www.499428.com | 30170077.com | 99332007.com | www.282205.com | www.65066jj.com | www.84499r.com | www.235117.com | zhcp83.com | 131b.net | www.033001.com | www.704907.com | www.2408a.com | 01019991.com | 083939.com | www.5555wnsr.com | www.286600.com | www.4923q.com | www.324577.com | bwin6804.net | gc900.com | www.zjlygm.cn | www.792074.com | www.c3714.com | 111p1.cc | 26668.com | www.tyc1802.com | www.07679d.com | www.878455.com | 9737ii.me | 996622vv.com | www.246778.com | www.80030077.com | www.388510.com | 4997y.com | www.lbj682.com | www.68058888.com | www.41518r.com | 92266m.com | 9958911.com | www.28624.com | www.78680b.com | www.560259.com | 500000454.com | www.g4383.com | www.848524.com | www.3552q.com | 9949n.com | 4997o.com | www.hg8145.com | www.a991qp.com | 2096d.com | 0015vv.com | www.026789.com | www.6939x.com | www.29277v.com | 82365e.com | www.1770q.com | www.7681004.com | www.112559.com | 7555.com | www.6606979.com | www.1206c.com | 4880h.com | 96769.com | www.49f8.com | www.80075w.com | 73999y.com | a35151.com | www.5049x.com | www.2350p.com | 3678ee.com | www.a3a000.net | www.38138y.com | www.646277.com | hwcp2222.com | www.436685.com | www.8998755.com | 0208vv.com | 4776622.com | www.c559vip.com | www.111xm.cc | 34p35.com | www.8694v.com | www.50.cc | z1777.com | 6220l.com | www.1064f.com | www.657069.com | 5219b.com | www.8088msc.com | www.68689d.com | 1985555.com | www.vns2n2.com | www.3846hh.com | vdisk.cn | xpj888c.com | www.u32939.com | www.552703.com | 6146j.com | www.449999.com | www.zcwf0.com | 78886508.com | www.600w04.com | www.26163x.com | 5647p.com | www.vns55545.com | www.3978z.com | 89777c.com | www.719365.com | www.35898b.com | 3552i.com | www.76060g.com | www.1100.net | 6868uu.cc | www.9374s.com | www.6888775.com | 7774661.com | www.2836536365.com | www.16065e.com | 8722oooo.com | www.655666c.com | www.6653k.com | 737pcsi.cn | www.jiliyule.com | www.5522j.cc | 2009666.com | www.awwv.cc | www.783500.com | 30157700.com | www.jz6988.com | www.236002.com | b667766.com | www.07679e.com | 7894x48.com | www.cr689.com | www.83033s.com | 23233i.com | www.66335.com | www.828916.com | 6261bb.com | www.7225i.com | 87665r.com | www.yinhecc11.com | www.88266d.com | 07322222.com | www.078999.com | www.466161.com | i2894.com | www.pj9080.com | c99345.am | www.hg99953.com | www.898364.com | 8569811u.com | www.32031m.com | 7003f.com | www.999e888.com | www.916733.com | dzhcp.com | www.80080.com | 81366w.com | www.11731.com | www.646277.com | 284813.com | www.1232222.net | 5651g.com | www.8582hh.com | www.89656a.com | www.nstar88.com | www.32123q.com | pj88qq.com | www.00778r.com | 8159xxx.cc | www.js16689.com | www.551409.com | 50024422.com | www.91233m.com | d3405.com | www.4996jn.com | 8898811.net | www.666suncity.com | www.544559.com | www.8520h.com | www.51331b.com | vns00cc.com | www.73990s.com | 1591hhh.com | www.jsc9558.com | js8800vip.com | www.31399t.com | www.732779.com | 1319822.com | www.39500k.com | 650877.com | www.1764p.com | 86611e.com | www.c46.com | 2934l.com | www.521138.com | c7454.com |