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    你真正活明白了嗎?

    2019-05-30 . 閱讀: 1,110 views

    文/ 鸚鵡夜陽

    最近,偶然間重拾閱讀文章的喜好。相信喜歡讀文章或者喜歡轉發朋友圈的朋友都知道,我們身邊有太多文章都在寫:人生要努力,要發奮向上,要積極樂觀,告訴我們人生這個道理,那個道理,人生應該怎么做?什么你無聊了你的人生;愿你的蛻變,不是喪;不要讓你的生活一眼能看望到盡頭……

    真的,但凡受過九年義務教育的人都知道:失敗是成功的媽媽。跌倒了就要爬起來。怎么著,跌倒不爬起來是準備在地上翻滾嗎,蛋炒飯。

    高曉松說過,他直到四十歲才真正明白“四十不惑”究竟是什么意思。他說:我現在去看,就覺得四十歲之前的自己,就想找個地縫鉆進去。問他是不是很不靠譜?他說:反正就是狂妄,膨脹。現在不膨脹不慌張,也不掙扎。原來以為四十不惑,沒到四十歲的時候,老覺得四十不惑意思就是說,你就都明白了,什么都懂了。其實到了四十歲的時候,才發現,四十不惑的意思是說,到了年紀你不明白的事情,你就不想明白了。年輕的時候,每件事情你都想弄明白,每個人你都想仔細看透,每個事情你都想不明白這到底怎么回事,這個社會,這個時代,你就會特別想去明白。你明白不了,你連你最愛的人你可能都明白不了,可是年輕的時候就太想明白,有一些事情不明白就是生活的慌張,等老了才發現慌張就是情趣,你不慌張了,情趣就沒了。

    人生一定要活明白嗎?真的不需要,因為你想明白的時候也明白不了啊。你讓小學生明白1+1=2可以,你讓他明白哥德巴赫猜想(所有大于4的偶數都可以分解成兩個素數(質數)的和)?

    什么年紀就該表現出什么樣子的狀態。十幾二十歲,我們都是背著單肩包,騎著自行車,穿著球鞋T恤,和閨蜜手攙手逛街,或者是和一幫老鐵們吹著牛皮,上著網,打個游戲。三十來歲,學會承擔事業家庭的責任,該有自己的事業和家庭。這就是人們口中經常說的什么年紀做什么樣子的事情,同樣什么年紀就該擁有和他相同年紀的快樂和慌張。

    兩年前,義無反顧踏上支教的路上。(實在不想提到支教這件事,因為覺得做的不夠好,是懷有遺憾離開那里的,同時也不想自己僅僅因為去了半年,就一直在消費我這人生中難忘的半年)。逗逗說:她也去支教了。她離開之前說了一段話,打動了我,相信也會打動很多人。都知道我們支教,面對的是些留守兒童,孩子們都不喜歡父母不在身邊。但他們不敢說,逗逗再問,你想就打電話給爸爸媽媽嘛。她說不行。我打電話的話,爸爸媽媽就特別擔心我。但他們肯定不能回來的,因為他們要賺錢。打了電話,我難受,爸爸媽媽也難受。

    這些小孩子們,每天都要克服自己,克服對爸爸媽媽的思念。孩子啊,你為什么要活的這么明白,明白原來是件這么難過的事情啊!

    什么事情都按部就班,活的明明白白,清清楚楚,就跟機器一樣,就跟一串冰冷的數字一樣。就跟二進制計算機一樣:1 , 0 , 1, 0 ,1 ,0 , 1,0000 ……

    左岸記:活得明白的人,每一天都確切地知道自己在做什么,為了什么而忙碌,未來要達成什么目標。但對未來迷惘的人其實更多,這時應該怎么辦呢?三個字:先忙活。因為不是每個人在一開始就知道正確答案,只有不斷地嘗試,排除掉一部分錯誤答案。自己真正喜歡的事,也許在某天夜里就忽然頓悟了。

    左岸

    愛讀書,愛生活!

    3 Comments On 你真正活明白了嗎?

    1. 活明白,才不會踩進同一個坑,也才能有更多選擇。而非認可自己宿命卻無能為力。

    2. 我是想活得更明白些,那樣就會少些許困擾,減少對身邊人的叨擾。優秀的人有一個相似的地方:自律。足夠自律的人,活得更加明白。

    3. 很多時候還是不要明白得好

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