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    從錯位的常態中找尋更好的自己

    2019-04-20 . 閱讀: 783 views

    文/郭敏敏

    你是否也曾感覺自己的人生有些錯位?就像搭錯了車一樣,好像你并不該屬于這份工作、這個人,或者這個城市。

    昨晚看了一部印度電影——《午餐盒》:沒有印度電影的大鳴大放,沒有一言不合就尬舞的橋段,相反,色調灰暗,隱忍又克制。在導演的鏡頭下,人滿為患雜亂不堪的孟買也變得靈動了幾分,透過屏幕,能讓人感受到導演對熟悉的家鄉深沉的愛。影片的故事線并不復雜,講述了一位平凡的家庭主婦和毫無交集的上班族之間,因為一份送錯地點的午餐而衍生出一段浪漫而憂傷的愛情故事。據說此片呼聲極高,最后卻落選報送奧斯卡最佳外語片,令整個印度電影界無比震驚。

    影片里有一句出現多次的臺詞:你坐錯了火車,卻去到了對的地方。

    曾經有一位朋友說:“我感覺自己所從事的工作枯燥乏味,更談不上實現了什么人生價值。”這就好像你坐錯了車,又無法輕易喊停。少不更事,我也是后來才逐漸懂得,其實這個世界上真正能夠擁有一份既熱愛又能養活自己、順帶還能實現人生價值工作的人,并不很多,甚至清醒的說,這樣幸運的人,是極少數的。平凡如你我,有時少了幾分開天辟地的果斷和決心,有些膽怯也有些慫,但還是要努力去適應。

    影片里男主人公時常獨自一人望向遠方的沉默,讓我想起了塞林格在《破碎故事之心》里說過的話:有人認為愛是性、是婚姻、是清晨六點的吻、是一堆孩子,也許真是這樣的,萊斯特小姐。但你知道我怎么想嗎?我覺得愛是想觸碰又收回手。

    故事的漸進一直伴隨著那小小的午餐盒,一粥一飯,一葷一素,卻動人心弦。你看,順流逆流、青澀事故,人生就吃飯這點兒念想,真切鑿實,心再厲害也蒙不了胃。無論男人女人,喂飽自己的本事總還是要學會的。這個世界的快樂,多半都不復雜,幸福也不復雜,任何瞬間的心動都不容易,不要怠慢了它。德叔(一位我挺喜歡的作家)說:他一直是直男,理工科的老直男,但這不妨礙他“表情”豐富的活著。曾經以為沒有情緒,就是修行到位,現如今,他倒是覺得,充滿表情的人,其實更像是一場修行——不做喜怒無常的人,談幾次雖敗猶榮的戀愛,鼓幾次臨難不茍的勇氣,退卻幾筆不義之財,救助幾個孤苦之人,該報恩的報恩,該雪恥的雪恥。

    曾有一位衛報女記者問過霍金一個問題:“什么曾經深深感動你?”霍金的回答:“遙遠的相似性”。體會陌生人的故事,分享周遭人的情誼,看遠處的山,讀近處的書,那些似曾相識和感同身受都會給我們力量,讓我們慢慢明白:其實人生錯位是常態,雖成不了幸運的少數,也不妨礙你迂回走向距離當初不那么遙遠的、越來越好的自己。

    2019.4.15書于煙臺家中

    左岸記:世事蕪雜,人生錯位也是常態,執迷于當初自認的合理性,往往是刻舟求劍。雖然,有時候,我也會往內心深處探索,在遙遠的當年,在人生的棋盤還沒有被固定下來時,如果我選擇了走另一條路,我現在會怎么樣?片刻怔忡,一時感嘆,隨后鋪展到眼前的,仍然是眼前這一大片繼續面對的現實。這也許正是生活的別具風情之處,如此,也甚好。

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