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    等待是一種偷懶

    2019-02-17 . 閱讀: 1,205 views

    文/haojiehuo

    昨天和同事聊天,他說他現在一直在找一個點,他需要找到一個他能夠讓自己變得有勁的點,他不想頹廢下去,我才發現,原來,別人也會存在與我一樣的問題,我以前就總在等,等誰誰羞辱我了,我就奮勇直追,等時間不得已了,我再去做,等我知道自己喜歡什么的時候,我再去做那個事情,等別人讓位與我,等……反正就是自己現在什么都不用干,什么委屈都不用受,什么努力都不用付出,總會有那么一個點,我自己會心甘情愿地做著我現在做不到和不愿做的事情,只不過不是現在。

    正好我自己最近也想明白這個東西,所以我說他還是懶,還是想要找捷徑,但是他覺得是那個點沒有到的原因。

    我們做事情,總是在等,等具備了做事的條件,等發生了什么事情,或者等自己什么時刻能夠主動熱情地做事情,總之我們就是只要現在不做事情就好了。為什么說懶呢,就是因為自己不自覺地把解決問題的辦法,寄托到別人身上,寄托到條件身上,甚至是寄托到那個不知道什么時候才能勇猛無敵的自己身上,我覺得人真的是只要能夠偷懶,是什么理由都能夠找到。

    自己現在這個無能弱不禁風的樣子,如果什么都不做,以后大概也是如此,甚至還會更糟。如果事事都等,自己怎么可能平白無故的變得厲害?其次,如果非要經歷一些痛徹心扉的事情,那么為什么一定要經歷才改變,現在改變難道不是最好的嗎,一定要承受了傷害打擊,才往前走嗎?當打擊傷害來臨的時候,自己擁有的資源條件只會更少,那么做事的難度只會更大,在條件允許的情況下不去做,非要在做事很難的情況下再去做,怎么可能?另外就是等環境條件變好再去做事情,好的環境和好的條件,這都是需要門檻和運氣的,社會上當然存在好環境,但是自己能夠進去嗎,夠得上那個門檻嗎?

    機會都是給有準備的人,但是一直等機會再準備的人,是看不到機會。只有具備了做某事的條件的人,在某些問題出現時,能夠順利地解決并提升,但是一直等問題出現后再去解決,這樣的人恐怕都不具備發現問題的能力,在問題出現時,只會讓自己變得更被動更差,機會就等于未被解決的問題。機會是留給提前發現問題并準備好解決問題方案的人。

    我覺得等待的內因,就是不愿意去承受改變帶來的痛苦,但是又不得不面對殘酷現狀給自己帶來的痛苦,于是,把期望寄托于外部,等待就成了一個緩解兩者痛苦的最佳選擇。等待未來某刻的到來,這種期待降低了改變可能帶來的痛苦,因為覺得未來的某個時刻,自己就不需要付出那么大的努力。對未來的期待本身,也弱化了糟糕現狀的痛苦,因為覺得自己將來必然會變好,所以現在的痛苦也就可以接受了。

    如果說事實真就如此,那人生就太過簡單了。我們每個人只要去幻想去期待,就好了。但是這顯然不符合真實情況。

    做人做事還是必須要去承擔痛苦,不要總想著別人能幫助自己,不要總是幻想一些不著邊的。現在什么都不做,未來必定是什么都做不了。如果想要改變,承擔改變的代價和痛苦就是改變的開始,也是未來可能變好的開始,不要再一直等下去了。

    左岸記:好的等待不能是逃避,不能是什么也不做,而是平時就足夠地努力用心積累,有了辛勤的耕耘播種,然后靜待花開;要有等待的心是說人在努力之后要有一種耐性,一種堅韌,一份豁達,這樣對結果就既有了得之安然,不得泰然的心態了。

    左岸

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    2 Comments On 等待是一種偷懶

    1. 后來成功的,在之前看不到機會和希望的時候就開始努力了

    2. 寫得很好,從2012年就開始看你的博客,我現在就是這種的狀態,哎 謝謝

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