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    抱怨是對自己無能的憤慨

    2019-01-18 . 閱讀: 1,160 views

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    生活如同時間一樣,對每個人都是一樣的。但是往往不同的人的不同思維、眼光、心態,造就了不一樣的生活方式,生活局面。有的人生活光彩奪目,有的人生活布滿荊棘。

    面對生活的落差,難免會有滿腔的埋怨和滿腹的牢騷;但是我們是否有經過深層次的分析和思考,為什么生活差異如此之大呢?

    很多時候,我們更多的是站在自己的一個渺小的角落,思考著我們所處的問題,而忽略了大的環境所能賜予我們的能量。

    生活中,我們可能基礎環境過于薄弱,導致我們的生活經歷了辛酸,往往就會羨慕和想要我們所不能及的生活,而忽略了我們所擁有的美好;某些人,會在困苦中涅槃重生,改變自己被動的困境;而有些人,則更多的是抱怨、是頹廢,得到的僅僅只能是越來越困苦的生活,越來越被動的人生,自己也變得失落、迷茫。

    其實我們有沒有想過,我們今天的生活,自己再多的抱怨又有什么用呢?抱怨了,生活就會變好了嗎?通過抱怨是否實現了自己想要的生活呢?答案肯定是沒有的,生活還是會一成不變的,抱怨并不會往好的方向改變什么,改變的恰恰是個人的心態,讓人生活在更加的悲觀之中。

    工作中,我們難免會遇到一些棘手的事情,而不管是大公司還是小公司,不管是什么崗位總會有那么些人,喜歡將煩死了、急死了、麻煩死了等一些詞匯掛在嘴邊。

    這對于剛剛參加工作的小白來說很正常,但是要及時發現,其實這都不是什么好的習慣,不管在什么樣的公司,老板和領導最不愿意聽到的就是這些所謂的負面的詞匯。而且這樣的詞匯如果出現在老員工的嘴里,對新員工的培養是非常不利的。

    一個老員工嘴里經常掛著這樣的詞匯,也難怪無法晉升,不管做的再怎么樣,這些詞匯一出,印象也就大打了折扣。而事實也是這樣,就算天天帶著這樣的詞匯,工作就不要做了嘛?事情就能變得簡單嘛?肯定不會,反而會因為心理作用增加難度。那么又何必去說,又何必去讓這些不好的詞匯出現在你的心里呢?

    少一點報怨,多一點肯定,做好每一件事,那才是對自己最好的肯定,對自己最好的回報。一個人的一生也就幾十載,何不積極向上地生活呢?為什么要讓抱怨成為自己的口頭禪呢?

    世人皆苦,唯心不易。生活的苦與累是常態,沒有誰的生活是容易的,我們只有經歷了世間的苦才會砥礪我們堅韌不拔的意志和不屈不撓的品格。我們需要的是行動而不是抱怨和牢騷,只有行動才能解決問題,抱怨只能算得上是對自己無能的憤慨。

    左岸記:當一個人處于“怨婦”的狀態,那他就會把一切問題歸因給環境和他人,最典型的模式就是“都是你們的錯”。看一個人怎么樣,就是看他在遇到問題時是怎么想和處理的。

    左岸

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    2 Comments On 抱怨是對自己無能的憤慨

    1. 有點像高中時代的作文,沒有過多的驚艷

    2. 現實中確實如此,只有強大自己,調整狀態 才不至于深陷否定他人 否定自己的一個處境之中,
      有生之年,活出自己,積極樂觀去度過每一天。
      不要辜負自己

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